Nothing in this life happens just like that, because my grandfather is not an accident in my life – Kabylbaev Kezdembek, I continue to share my memories of my grandfather’s guidance. I hope my revelations will help you get answers to frequently asked questions. The bowl of knowledge will be constantly renewed, if we share what we have learned – to be a channel of blessing for others, then your needs will always be met – one of the instructions of my grandfather.
After all, our life is a process of becoming, not being content with what is, looking for something more and more new, interesting – the main spiritual, immaterial will be added.
There is a wonderful book about the wisdom of King Solomon, he was the wisest and richest king in the whole world. The Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream and said: “Ask what to give you,” the young king of 13 years old, asked to be given a rational heart in order to justly judge the people and discern where is good and where is evil, as well as wisdom and knowledge. God said to him: “You did not ask yourself a long life, you did not ask yourself for wealth or the death of your enemies, but you asked for reason to judge and make the right decisions. Therefore, I will do what you asked for. I give you wisdom and intelligence: something like this has never happened to you before you, and after you it never will. I also give you what you did not ask for. All your life you will have wealth and fame. And there will be no other king in the world, as great as you. ”Solomon studied a lot, read, analyzed the experience, mistakes and results of his life. Representatives of other countries came from all over the world for advice and wisdom to Solomon, for which they brought generous rewards – gold, silver, cattle, jewelry, etc.
Each child is born with his talents and abilities already from above, and parents, teachers and close people participate in the formation, education, disclosure of his abilities and the development of a child.
For instance :
– at school, perhaps we praise children for good grades or react only to negative grades and humiliate the child’s dignity, instead of encouraging and supporting;
– employment for work, they ask for length of service and work experience, and what to do for graduates. For example, my son is a capable guy, graduated from the oil and gas university in Xian, returning home with knowledge of Chinese, Russian and Kazakh, he could not get a job anywhere in his specialty – he has no work experience. So many children from ordinary families who have the ability and knowledge, with a diploma, work as workers without revealing their abilities.
I will return to the parables of my grandfather, who was an attentive listener to his teacher-mentor, because my grandfather could not read and write, once my grandfather said:
– in every new person at birth there are accompanying angels until the end of life, we have two shoulders where two angels sit, like doves:
One is a good angel, having heard the good, he attracts good and good, and the second, an evil angel, attracts evil and bad.
Concerning our present time, I would like to encourage and give hope to our Kazakhstanis – fellow countrymen, all residents of the country, and perhaps the world. Dear ones, pay attention: what we think, what we say, how we think – all this comes into our life.
Out of the abundance of the heart, the lips say that in our heart, then they come out of our mouth, we are the caretakers and masters of our heart, with what we fill our insides, then it will come from our lips.
These times will also pass, the economy will improve, new jobs will open, something new will come. This year will remain a period in the history of our country, time heals, believe, hope for the best, watch positive kind films, read good articles and books, because life is short, and yesterday will not happen again today, you have to live and believe. We can know a lot of numbers, but faith in a better tomorrow saves us – this is our treasure.
Give kindness and give thanks for every new day, thank for food, for light, for life, from early morning release good, joyful things into the spiritual world:
late for work – ask the boss for forgiveness and decide to go to bed early;
offended by a person – invite for a cup of tea and clarify what your relative meant, often without finding out, we conjecture other people’s words spoken incorrectly, and the other side does not even understand the relative’s offense.
How important it is not just to listen, but also to hear, to talk, because resentment and reticence, not forgiveness lead to illness.
Bul mirde yeshteңe dәl send bolmaids, uytkeni menin atam menin өmirimde kezdeisoқ zhadai emes – Қabylbaev Kezdembek, men atamnyң crazy turaly esteliktersemimn bөl Menin ashularim sizge zhi koyylatyn sұraқtarғa zhauap aluғa kumektesedi dep үmittenemin. Bilimnin tostaғy үnemi zhagaryp otyrady, huntsman biz zgeler shin batanyk arnasy bolu үshin үyrengenderimizben bulisetin bolsaқ, onda sizdin atazhettashіlіkterіtana
Akyr soңynda, bizdin өmirimiz – bar nәrsege қanaғattanbai, zhana, kyzyқty nәrseni izdeu – basty rukhani, materialy emes nәrse bolu process.
Suleimen patshanyk danalygy turaly keremet kitap bar, ol bokil alemdegi eң agyldy zhane bay patsha boldy. Zharatқan Iyo Sүleymenge tүsіnde kөrіnіp “Senen not sұraytynyn sұra” – dedі 13 zhasar zhas Patsch, adamdarғa Adil baғa berіp, қay poles zhaқsy Myung қay poles Jaman ekenіn, Sogndal-ak danalyқ foams bіlіmdі anyқtau ushin aқylғa қonymdy Zhurek berudі өtіndі. Құday onan: “Siz өzinizden ұzak mir suramadygyz, zinizden baylyk nemese dashpandaryңyzdyk өlimin suramadyңyz, biraқ siz үkrasim shygarypyz, dұryn siz Men sizge aқyl men parasat beremin: mұndai nәrse sizge deyin eshқashan bolғan emes, sizden keyin de bolmaidy. Men sizge suramakan nurseni de beremin. Sizde bokil өmiriniz sizde bilyk pen daңққa iye bolady. Alemde sendy uly patsha bolmaidy. »Suleimen kup Omir ogydy, odydy, Omirinin tenzhiribesin, Aatelikteri men natizhelerin taldady. Basқa elderdin ukіlderi Sүleymenge aқyl-keңes pen keңes alu shin lemnin әr tүkpirinen keldi, sol shin olar mol syylyқtar – altyn, kumis, malne tiggerlik bog.
Urbir bala zhogarydan uzinin talents of men kabiletimen tuada, al onyk kalyptasuyna, turbiesine, balanyk kabiletin ashuғa zhane damytuғa ata-analar, mұғalіmder zhenatydam zhadam.
– mektette, mүmkin, biz balalardy zha бsy baғalar үshin mataimyz nemese tek zhaғymsyz ba реакцияaғa reaction kursetip, balanyk қadir-kasietin men orlaimyz, kerіsudіnshe madaoltana
– zhumysқa to orralasu, olar zhumys atіlі men zhumys atіlіn suraydy zhune tulekterge not isteu kerek. Mysaly, menin ulym kabiletti zhigit, siandagy munay-gaz universityin bitirip, uytay, orys zhune kazak tildern bilip uyine oraldy, mamandys boyinsha esh zherde zhummy zhummy Abileti men bilimі bar қarapayym otbasylardan shyққan, diplomas bar balalar өzderinin қabiletterin ashpastan zhumyshy bolyp zhumys isteydі.
Men mұғalimnin tulimgerin muiyat tyadaytyn atamnyk astarly ugimelerine oralamyn, uytkeni menin atam oni almady zhane zhaza almady, birde atam:
– өmirge kelgen rbir zhana adamda өmirinin soyna deyin birge zhuretin perishteler bolady, bizde eky kugershin siyaty eky perishte otyrgan eky yyқ bar:
Biri – zhausy perishte, zhausylyқty estip, ol zhausylyk pen zhansylyқty uzine tartady, al ekinshisi – evil perishte, zhamandyk pen zhamandykty tartady.
Bizdin kazirgi uaқytymyzғa katysty men kazakstandyқtardy – otandastards, eldin barlyk turandaryn, mumkin alemdi zhigerlendirip, olara umit artkym keledi. Urmetti, nazar audarygyz: biz not oylimyz, not aytamyz, kalay oylaymyz – osynyk biri bizdin өmirimizge enedi.
Zhurektin kuptiginen erinder bizdin zhuregimizde, sodan nirn olar bizdin auzmyzdan shygady, biz zhregimizdin kamkorshysy zhne uzhayyny ekenimizd
Tolkynғa Harsy zhuzu degenimiz – bolashaққa degen senimmen өmir sүru, zgerіster men zgerіster bizden, bizdin otbasymyzdan bastalady, women ol basқalarғa berіledі, sondy da yelzterdeam
Iya, men tusinemin, kiyndyktar, aura, zhangyndarynan ayrylu, daadarys bar, birak өmir zhalasuda. Tarikhty eske tusireyik – Otan sogysy, 16 zheltoқsan – 1986 zhylyy Zheltoқsan oniғasy құrbandaryn eske alu kuni – kansha zhas kaytys boldy, odaқtyk ydyrauy – bos esepshiler oba epidemiya aurular zhylar